Is Your Valentine the
Some men are more likely to cheat
than others because of their background, past history or certain
character traits. What about the man in your life? Is your Valentine
the cheating kind? Answer these 7 questions to see if your man is a
(PRWEB) -- According to statistics, 50% to
70% of men cheat on their mates. What type of man is most likely to
cheat? Ruth Houston, infidelity expert and author of Is He Cheating on
You? - 829 Telltale Signs says, “Some men are more likely to
cheat than others. You can tell by looking at certain things in their
background, their past history, or certain character traits.”
What about the man in your life? Is your valentine the cheating kind?
Houston says the answers to the following questions will help you rate
your mate to see if he's a potential cheater.
- Does he thrive on adventure?
- Did he have a great deal of sexual
experience prior to your relationship?
- Does he have lots of female friends?
- Does he have male friends who are
cheating on their wives or girlfriends?
- Does he have a parent who cheated?
- Did he cheat in any of his past
- Does he feel that infidelity is really no
What your answers mean:
- Some men enjoy all the suspense,
deception and intrigue that accompany infidelity. They'll cheat just
for the “thrill of the chase.”
- Studies reveal that men who were
extremely sexually active before settling down in a committed
relationship are more apt to engage in sex outside that relationship.
Don't expect a leopard to change his spots.
- Close friendships with women are a common
starting point for infidelity. Friends can quickly turn into lovers.
The closer the friendship, the greater the odds that it will develop
into an affair.
- Never underestimate the power of peer
pressure. If his friends are cheating, he'll soon be cheating too.
- Infidelity tends to run in families.
Children of unfaithful parents are often programmed to follow in their
footsteps, considering infidelity to be the norm.
- “Once a cheater, always a
cheater.” There are exceptions, but statistically speaking,
if he cheated once, he's more apt to do it again. His history will
probably repeat itself.
- If he doesn't believe that infidelity is
wrong, his behavior will reflect his beliefs.
The more ‘yes' answers you have,
the greater the likelihood that you have a potential cheater on your
hands. “Even you only have one ‘yes', Houston
warns,” there's still cause for concern. Fortunately, there
are at least a dozen precautions you can take.” For a FREE
tip sheet entitled “ 12 Ways to Handle a Potential
Cheater,” send an e-mail to: e-mail protected from spam bots
(CheatingInfo at aol.com) with the words "12 Ways” in the
Evaluating the Results
“Since some answers carry more weight than others”
says Houston, “you'll want to evaluate the results. You need
to know if you're dealing with a Potential Cheater, a Common
"Garden-Variety" Cheater, an Experienced Cheater, or a Hard-Core
If you answered yes to #1, #2, or #5 (but not all three), he's a
Potential Cheater who will probably cheat if the opportunity presents
If you answered yes to #3 or #4 alone, together, or in combination with
#1 or #2, he's a Common "Garden-Variety" Cheater who will cheat if he
feels he can do it without getting caught.
If you answered yes to #6 alone or in combination with #1,#2, #3, #4,
or #5 you're dealing with an Experienced Cheater who's probably good at
covering his tracks. Watch him like a hawk and familiarize yourself
with the 21 categories of telltale signs.
If you answered yes to #7 alone ( This one's the biggie) or in
combination with any others, you've got a Hard-Core Cheater on your
hands who's probably already having an affair. Make sure you know how
to recognize the telltale signs. Visit http://www.Is-He-Cheating-On-You.com
Free Tip Sheet to Help You Deal With a Potential Cheater
Whether you're dating a potential cheater or married to one you need to
know what to do. Ruth Houston's free tip sheet, “12 Ways to
Handle a Potential Cheater, will give you some successful strategies to
use in dealing with a potential cheater and tell you what precautions
to take. To receive your free personal copy of this valuable tip sheet,
send an e-mail to: e-mail protected from spam bots (CheatingInfo at
aol.com) with the words "12 Ways” in the subject line.
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