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Relationship Reality: Are Your Relationships Based In Reality or Fantasy?
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Signs of Cheating: Cheating Men Signs and Why They May Not Work!

by Shawn Nelson, MSA.
Why Men Cheat
(c) 2006. All Rights Reserved.

There is the belief that a woman can utilize cheating men signs to identify a cheating man. While I agree the cheating signs may be helpful it may not work for all men. Let me show you why the cheating men signs may not work.

If you watch TV, Iím sure you have heard a news story about someone being caught for a crime they committed. Now that appears to be a good thing right? Well, it is until you start thinking of the big picture.

The truth is only the people who are careless, and sometimes down right stupid, get caught. In other words, we only hear about the people who get caught!

It is the same with cheating men...we only hear about the ones who get caught. But what about the ones that donít get caught? I bet youíre saying, "Oh, but they always get caught?" Are you sure about that? You may not be aware of the professional cheaters.

These are people (men and women) who literally make a life of cheating. You would rarely catch them! Want to know why? They are aware of the signs people look for and make sure not to drastically change their behavior or patterns to draw attention.

I know what Iím talking about because I was one of those individuals. And no one knew I was cheating. I kept my regular schedule, did what I always did and never got caught over a 15-year period.

Donít get me wrong; Iím not talking bad about the cheating men signs women use as they will provide some insight into the men who desire to start cheating. But for those who have already developed their skills, the cheating men signs may not work.

One of the best ways to catch such cheaters is to trust your instincts or gut feelings. Sometimes you know something isnít right but donít have any proof. There is always proof you just have to know where to look!

You begin by looking in the past! If you really got to know your man then there might be changes in his habits, although very subtle, that can give you a tip.

For example, when it comes to sex most people rarely change their routine. Sure one may experiment every now and again but itís usually the same. Now, when your man starts using new techniques on you but he has never bragged about it before or mentioned plans he has for you, there is a good chance he may have gotten them from another women.

Look, most men who love sex are known for bragging. If they really have something new they will give you a warning by saying something like, ďYou are going to be in trouble tonight when I get home. I got a surprise for you.Ē

Or he may say, ďI got something I want to try I think you would like.Ē But when it just happens with no warning...put your thinking cap on! You know his rhythm, the way he kisses, touches you, hold you and so on. Pay attention to how these things change.

Now hereís the key point. If from day one your man was never focused on improving the sex and lovemaking why is he so interested in it now? You must pay attention to your man from the first time you meet him!

The sad part is if he was always interested in trying new things and in improving the lovemaking it will be very difficult to catch him. You can use various products to monitor his computer access and what he types or check his cell phone.

Yet, a professional cheater wonít fall for this! He will let you answer his phone as well as look over his shoulder when heís on the computer. The point is he will not do anything that will draw attention to him or to make you wonder if he is cheating.

Despite what many people think itís the men whom you least expect to cheat that are the slick, professional cheaters. You know the ones who seem honest, a family man and the pillar of the community?

Now do you see why it is difficult to catch a cheating man? The way to catch one of these guys is to hire a Private Detective. You would be amazed by what they do to get away with such activities.

My suggestion is simple:

  • Locate a web site that provides you with the cheating men signs and see if your man fits them
  • If that doesnít work after a while then maybe you have a professional cheater on your hands and need professional help

By the way, donít waste your time confronting a cheating man, as he will never admit it. Actually, he will tell you your mind is playing tricks on you, that he loves you and would never do such a thing. Cheating men are liars so donít believe anything they tell you!

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Relationship Reality: Are Your Relationships Based In Reality or Fantasy?
Relationship Reality: Are Your Relationships Based In Reality or Fantasy?
Relationship Reality: Are Your Relationships Based In Reality or Fantasy?