How Past Unhappy
Relationship Problems Prevent Women From Keeping and Meeting the Man of
Shawn Nelson, MSA - Living
An Unhappy Life?
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fortunate to be raised by strong women from birth (i.e., my mother,
grandmother and aunts). This allowed me to develop a keen insight into
the world of women and how they handle relationships.
six years, I have seen an alarming trend that is rising among unhappy
women or frustrated women. Want to know what it is?
women are holding on to
negative past experiences, which causes relationships problems with
their current and potential partners.”
know this already,” you are probably thinking! Yet,
what you know is less important than identifying if you suffer from it.
how is works….
involved with a man, some how the relationship doesn’t work
and she becomes bitter. She vows never to get involved with a man like
few months or years, the woman gets involved with another man things go
well for a little while and bam it falls apart!
meets another man, gives her all to him only to find out he lied to her
and was cheating. So another relationship ends.
forward, the woman will usually become skeptical about all men she
comes in contact with no matter what they do or how nice they are.
if the man
has done nothing wrong, helps her in many ways, respects her and treats
her like a woman should be treated he will still catch the wrath of
that woman. And, it is the result of the woman not being able to let go
of past relationship problems.
argue that the man just isn’t her type! I can give you that!
But what woman, in her right mind, would not want a man to love her,
cherish her, spend time with her, love her children (if she has any),
and do all the things a woman dreams of?
problem! It is because this man is so good the woman believes he will
change just like the men she dated before. So, she would rather keep
him at a safe distance, stay as friends and wait for her “Knight
in Shining Armor” who will fit her profile.
meantime, the man will get sick and tired of the bull and just walk
away! If he’s nice he will talk with the woman and let her
know how her actions or lack thereof are making it difficult for him to
be around her much longer.
woman will deny she is doing anything to him, which she can honestly
say since she may not be aware of what she’s doing!
is past relationship problems will cause the woman to shun the man she
should continue to interact with and most likely end up with another
man like the ones in the past!
is so easy
to blame the men in the past! Yet, it is difficult to look in the
mirror and see the person who is responsible for picking the men! No
one says you have to put up with the bull, yet many women do!
want to be happy with your relationships, do yourself a favor and take
a good, hard look at yourself. You have no one to blame but you when
you end up in an unhappy relationship and tons of relationship
problems. The only consistent variable in each relationship is you!
the next step and discover the main reasons why you pick the wrong men
by visiting How
To Meet The Man of Your Dreams web site today!
Shawn Nelson, MSA is a Motivational Speaker,
Life Counselor and Author who creates guides, e-Courses and run several
sites that help people achieve their relationship, personal, life and
professional goals. To learn more visit the Love Life Advice web site.
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