If you haven't noticed by now, there is a common theme in each of the needs. In order for you to provide a good man with what he needs, there must be communication.

You can't tell lies to each other. You can't mislead each other. The only acceptable form of communication is the one that promotes honesty.

Each of you should be able to say what you feel without worrying about how it will affect the other. Yes, the truth does hurt! Trust me I know!

However, would you rather have the truth up front and deal with it. Or, would you rather have the truth after five, ten or fifteen years of marriage? The choice is yours.

As for the wants, they are what I call "nice to have" items. If you give your man the wants, then it should be by your choice.

If you get caught up in the wants of a good man (or any man) and neglect his needs, don't be surprised if he leaves you or worse, cheat on you.

The key is to provide the needs while balancing the wants. I can't give you a plan on how to balance everything. Just learn as much as you can about your man and use your judgment!

Hope you enjoyed this entertaining look into the mind of a good man.

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