Understanding Men: Understand What Men Need
from Women and What Men Want From Women - Day 1
What
Good Men Need
Most men do not know what they need. So,
it's important for you to control the process of helping your man
identify what he needs.
The items listed are the needs of real,
honest and good men. These are the needs that are deep within men.
While many men will deny they need what I
list, given enough time, they will reveal they need what is on the
following pages.
It may not be worded exactly as I wrote it,
but it will be close enough for you to realize I am pretty accurate
with my observations.
Just remember this is for entertainment
purposes only and based on my experience and observations.
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What Is A Need
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If you have read the guide, How
To Meet
The Man of Your Dreams, a
need is something that is very, very, very hard to do without. You may
be able to go on without it, but in doing so you probably will not be
living a healthy and happy life.
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Need #1: Men Need An Understanding Woman
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Believe it or not, men need lots of
understanding.
A man will usually screw up at least three
times when he is in a relationship with a woman. Some men will screw up
more and some less. Just know that a man will screw up.
Once you understand that, the question is, "How
will you deal with it?"
Unless a man has a woman who is willing to
understand why he screwed up, it will make it difficult for him to deal
with it and to prevent it from happening again.
The truth is if he were with himself, it
wouldn't matter to you if he screwed up.
If he was in another relationship where the
woman criticized him for his mistakes and didn't help him, it is almost
guaranteed to carry over into your relationship with him.
For example, if your man used the bill money
to buy an item he didn't need you would definitely get on him about it.
While it's understandable and expected,
would you actually try to understand why he spent the money?
Many women wouldn't care for the excuse or
to understand why it happened.
It is important to note that I am talking
about men who are responsible and taking care of business that make
mistakes. Not the knucklehead men that make you want to pull your hair
out.
Some of the reasons men give for their
screw-ups are so childish and trivial you may want to knock them upside
the head.
Have you ever heard?
You may probably think, "How
in the world could a grown, responsible man think such a thought or be
so dam simple?"
Just keep in mind it may be simple to you,
but to the man it's a big thing.
The key is to get to the core of the problem
that cause him to do silly, unbelievable things. Once that
happens, you will begin to understand what influence your man and what
he is thinking.
Your ability to help your man understand how
to deal with his screw-ups will show him that you care. It will lead to
him trusting you more and more!
I'll use myself as an example. I recently
did something that hurt a really good friend of mine. I didn't think
about how what I did would affect her. Actually, I didn't feel I did
anything wrong.
We stopped talking to each other and kept
our distance. I didn't realize how much I would miss her. We finally
reached out to each other and talked about what happened.
Guess what? I was at fault. I didn't put
myself in her shoes and it almost ruined a wonderful friendship.
Sometimes the screw-ups are intentional.
Other times it's just a lack of thinking things through (which was my
case).
Next: Understanding Men: Understand Men Need #2 - Men Need A Patient
Woman
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