Understanding Men: Understand What Men Need
and What Men Want From Women! - Day 2
#2: Men Need A Patient Woman
As I stated in Understand Men Need #1: Men Need An Understanding
Woman, a man
will screw-up. And those screw-ups will test your patience as much as a
child will test it.
Most men, for some reason, are very slow to
adapt. No matter how many times you tell a man to do something, he just
doesn't seem to get it.
How many times have you told a man to take
out the garbage, only to have him walk right by it as if it doesn't
How many times have you told a man to put
his clothes in the hamper only to have them laying all over the place?
If you don't already know, many men are like
children. You need to repeat yourself over and over until it finally
sinks in. This is why you need patience.
I know that statement may offend some women
but come on. Let's be real and honest with each other. Just because a
man is good doesn't mean he has all the qualities you desire. And it
doesn't mean all of his bad or not-so-good habits disappear.
All I'm stating is many men tend to have a
tendancy to be lazy, stubborn and hard-headed at times. And unless you
stay on them a lot of things won't get done.
I'm just being realistic here. If you've
never dealt with this before then congratulations.
Once again, it's important to note that we
are talking about good men. You could imagine what it would be like
with men who are considered "bad boys."
It is very difficult to be patient with a
boy who will never get his act together. The boy will drive you crazy
and make you want to kill him. Also, he may increase your stress level!
You need to make sure that you have a real
and good man who needs assistance in refining the rough, little things
that are still present from his past experiences.
Remember, he will annoy the mess out of you!
Just be patient, understanding and keep in
mind that he is your man and you did pick him!
If you don't want him anymore, then let him
go and get you another man or be with yourself.
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broken too many times or ending up in unhappy relationships there is
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