Understanding Men: Understand What Men Need From Women
and What Men Want From Women - Day 4
#4: Men Need A Woman Who Let's Him Have His Own Friends
Men and women have their own friends. In
addition to time for themselves, most men want time for their friends.
Sometimes this causes problems in the
relationship. It's usually a result of the man spending most, if not
all, of his time with his friends.
It's important for you to understand that
his friends were there before you came and will probably be there after
The best thing to do is when you two work
out a schedule for space to include time for each other's friends.
Some men want to spend time with their
friend's everyday or week, others bi-weekly. It's important to identify
how often your man wants to spend time with his friends.
It is possible you may realize he is not the
one for you at this time. That's okay! Just let him know what you
think, tell him you will have a difficult time with him spending more
time with his friends than with you, and leave him to think about it.
If he continues to ignore and neglect you,
leave him! Be with yourself for a little while so you don't have to
deal with another unsuccessful relationship.
Friends with a woman
One issue you may run into is if your man
has women friends. Especially if he is spending his free time with
I can tell you from experience that it was
very hard for me to be friends with a woman. When I would talk to women
ninety percent of my thoughts was on how I could sleep with them.
It took me a few years, but I realized how
to deal with being friends with women. As I matured, got more focused
on building my businesses, and developed more self-control.
I saw sex wasn't as important as me
achieving my goals, so it moved to the bottom of my priority list.
It will be difficult for a man, who has sex
listed within his top five priorities, to be friends with a woman. His
main objective will always be to figure out how he can sleep with them.
You need to identify how important sex is in
your man's life. If he needs it and can't live without it, then you may
have a problem. If the opportunity arises, he may end up sleeping with
his female friend(s).
Keep in mind that good men tend to have
better control of their sexual desires because they are focused on more
Finally, the worse that can happen is that
you break up with your man. Just find another man who can give you what
you need. Or be with yourself.
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