Understanding Men: Understand What Men Need From Women
and What Men Want From Women - Day 5
#5: Men Need A Woman Who Let's Him Cry
You are aware that most men will not cry in
front of you? It's not because they don't want too.
Men were taught not to cry. Many women talk
about men who cry.
Tell me if this sounds familiar "I want a
man who is sensitive, but not too sensitive. In touch with his
feelings, but not too soft." This is what women say to men.
Men are left to figure out what is "too
sensitive or too soft." If we express our emotions too much it's a
problem. If we don't express our emotions enough it's a problem.
A man would love to cry and let his feelings
and emotions out. He needs you to not ridicule him. He needs for you
tell him, "It's going to be alright baby, I'm here for you." It's
really that simple.
One last thing, when your man does cry, do
not tell your friends. It's none of their business.
The last thing your man needs is for one of
your friends to say, "I heard you cried last week, that's so sweet."
Your man will not trust you enough to cry in
front of you again. He will begin to close up on you and not express
his feelings anymore. I know you don't want that to happen!
Next: Understanding Men: Understand Men Need #6 - Men Need A Woman Who Allows Him To Be Weak