Understanding Men: Understand What Men Need From Women
and What Men Want From Women - Day 6
Need #6: Men Need A Woman Who Allows Him To Be Weak
If I had a nickel every time I heard a woman
say, "I want a strong man" I would be rich.
I understand why the statement is made.
However, many women forget or just overlook many things that affect men
everyday. It's the same things women go through!
Outside of the house a man is bombarded with
pressure to be a man. Society doesn't allow men to be weak at work or
in public. So, he must "appear" strong even if he isn't or doesn't want
For some men it takes work to appear strong.
For others it takes a toll on them mentally.
After being strong all day, when he comes
home he wants to relax and be weak. That's his way of rejuvenating
He doesn't want to make decisions, be
bombarded with questions or anything. He just wants to relax and talk.
Or maybe not talk.
He may not tell you he's tired of being
strong. He's tired of trying to fit in when he doesn't. He thinks you
will see him as being weak.
Every man, at one time or another, will get
sick and tired of trying to fit in and being strong. They will need a
woman who will allow them to be weak. Will that woman be you?
The best example I can give you is being a
As much as you love your children, sometimes
you are sick and tired of being "mommy!" You just want a break to
rejuvenate. Time to be with yourself.
That's how many men feel when they step
outside of the house! They want a moment where there's nothing called
If you can be the woman who allows your man
to be weak he'll appreiciate you so much more!
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