Understanding Men: Understand What Men Need From Women and What Men Want From Women - Day 8
Need #8: Men Need A Woman Who Works With Him
There are times when you do not want to deal with a man. This is usually a result of bad experiences with men.
However, you will meet a good man who has goals and desire a woman to work with him to achieve those goals.
Yes, he may screw up! Yes, he may stress you out at times! But, he is still a good man.
The last thing a good man need is a woman who is unable to assist with his goals. While it is his goals initially, the fact that he desires to share his life with someone indicates he is willing to modify them to include her goals.
This is why you need to have similar goals with your good man. If your goals don't match his there may be a problem.
If you are still dwelling on the past about your bad relationships, you may be unable to trust and work with him.
You may have a man in your life that doesn't have goals. Or, he doesn't care about tomorrow and lives for today. If that is the case, then find a man whom you can trust and is willing to work just as hard as you to achieve your goals.
The most important thing is to have someone with whom you can work with to achieve mutual goals.
The fun is not necessarily in reaching the goals but the journey you take to get there. Ask anyone you know who's successful in their relationship or marriage if what I say is true.
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