Understanding Men: Understand What Men Need From Women and What Men Want From Women - Day 9
Need #9: Men Need A Woman Who Is Consistent With Her Actions
A good man needs a woman who is consistent with her actions. While I will agree that most men are not consistent, they need a woman who is consistent.
Many men always say they will do things and never do it.
A man needs a role model. If he sees his woman being consistent, he will have no choice but to be consistent, if that is his goal.
If you are not consistent then there will be some issues.
It is important for you know that if a man loves you, and he knows you love him, he will follow your lead. So, lead by example and mold your man!
Let me add one more thing!
I hear so many complaints from women about men not being consistent and not meaning what they say. Then I hear complaints about how “boring” or “predictable” their man is.
Now imagine for a second you have a good man! How do you think he would react to hearing these statements from other women? I put my hands on my head and shake it left-to-right as if to say, “You're dammed if you do and dammed if you don't.”
Here's where I stand on this issue. I would rather be responsible, consistent and someone you can depend on. If that means I'll be seen as a boring person or too predictable then keep walking I'm not interested.
I see far too many women suffering because they expect too much from men who lie, steal, cheat, use drugs and in the end it's the same bull over and over again. God help you if you have a baby by the guy.
I've been told I was "predictable" but I know that's a good thing for me. There was a time when I wasn't predictable and very irresponsible. I had fun but did things I should not have done. No one could count on me for anything. I made promises I never kept. Is that the type of man you desire?
If you want consistency you have to give up a little excitement. It doesn't mean your relationship has to be boring. I'm far from boring!
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