Understanding Men: Understand What Men Need From Women and What Men Want From Women - Day 4
Want #4: Men Want A Pretty Woman
If you ask one hundred men what one quality they would want in a woman ninety percent will probably say, "someone who is pretty or beautiful."
A man loves a woman with a body and who looks good. It's nothing like the feeling of having a beautiful woman by your side with a body that screams for attention and gets it.
It's the same feeling women have when they walk into a room with a fine, handsome man filled with women and they're staring at him. All men are suckers for a beautiful woman. That is their weakness. Those that control that weakness usually do better in the relationship department.
Otherwise, they will go from pretty woman to pretty woman with no long-term relationship. The sex may be good, but that's it.
The men, who like and want the pretty women, usually haven't developed the skills needed to sustain a relationship.
They may not like to, or know how to, converse with a woman. Don't understand the importance of spending time with a woman. They may not understand what it takes to make a relationship work!
The bottom line is the man who places looks at the top of his list is not ready for a real relationship.
If your man wants a pretty woman, and constantly ridicules you and says, "you are not pretty," it's time leave him. You don't deserve to be treated like that.
There is a man who will and can treat you better. You just have to find him.
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I'm not pretty
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If ninety percent of men want a pretty woman (that's my opinion) that means they don't want a woman they think is not pretty!
Each man's definition of pretty or beauty is based on his preference.
You may not want to hear this, but if a man doesn't think you are pretty, you may not get noticed. You may feel invisible. The men that you like may not be attracted to you.
That "invisible" feeling can cause you to become someone you are not. Can cause you to do things you wouldn't ordinarily do like wear sexy and provocative clothing, be more outspoken when you're quiet, and possibly be more sexual with your flirting.
The most important thing to remember is that it's a "preference" for men. And what they think really doesn't matter. Although it does make you feel good when they are interested in you.
I know many women who are beautiful on the outside and beautiful on the inside. Yet those who are beautiful on the outside don't think they are beautiful. They truly believe and feel they are average.
If you like you and feel good about you, it doesn't matter what men think! Love yourself and forget about the stupid men who can't or won't appreciate the qualities you have!
Next: Understanding Men: Understand Men Want #5 - Men Want A Woman With A Sense of Humor
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