Understanding Men: Understand What Men Need From Women and What Men Want From Women - Day 8

Want #8: Men Want A Woman With Her Own Money

If you are a woman who is looking for a good man to take care of you, then you may run into problems.

Good men, in general, want a woman who has her own money! They do not want to support your habits when you can pay for them yourself.

It's not a matter of being cheap, as much as identifying the mutual and individual needs or wants.

For example, if you paid to get your hair and nails done regularly before you met your man, why should he start paying for it? While he may benefit from you looking sexy, it is your hair and your responsibility.

A good man usually thinks in the following way: "We will have three bank accounts, one for you, one for me and one for joint expenses." If you can't deal with that kind of setup, then you are not ready for a real man.

Just remember this is a want, but it is a very strong want!

The golden rule with men is "if you don't ask, you end up getting more than if you asked." Remember that!

One more thing. If you get involved with the so called “bad boy” there's a really good chance he will want you to have your own money so he can spend it. In other words, you will be supporting him. Be careful.

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